Choosing Your Child's First Horse

Too often dreams, sometime bones, or worse shatter when an inexperienced rider is given the wrong first pony or horse. Parents sometimes naively choose young and untrained horses for for their children.

Young, green-broke, or untrained horses can be less expensive but can be dangerous for an inexperienced rider. Some parents have been heard to say "They can grow up together." That may be true with a puppy or kitten, but is does not work with equine of any size.

A quite and respectful pony in the 13 to 14 hand range maybe a go choice. Such a pony is big enough to be trained by an adult or older child and will not be outgrown too quickly. A young child can cope with well mannered, well trained pony both physically and psychologically. This type of pony would be a great start to a lifetime of equine enjoyment. Would it not be great to see your child catch, groom, and saddle his or her own steed. A pony is a logical choice.

Don't kid yourself children do fall off. Think of a fall from a right sized pony versus a fall from a big horse.

Consider a well trained gelding at least 7 years old. Mares can have moody periods when they become unpredictable and dangerous. The exception would be an elderly mare who is beyond her productive years. Do not be afraid of age and wisdom as ponies often remain useful and sound well into their 20's and beyond.

First and foremost, the pony or horse must have a gentle, trusting disposition. The pony must have unquestionable respect for people, especially your child. Watch for pinned ears or other body language that indicates disrespect or aggressive behavior, such as striking with forefeet and the hindquarters toward the handler. The pony should never think of biting or kicking.

Buyers check list:

• Can the child catch the pony and put a halter on?
• If the pony is in a stall or catch pen when you arrive, ask to see the pony in a more open area.
• If tied up and saddle when you arrive, be aware this maybe a cover for a pony that is hard to catch and/or not gentle or is not easily saddled and bridled.
• Can the child lead the pony easily? The pony should lead obediently and quietly, both toward and away from the barn and other horses. The pony should not crowd the child, should stop when the child stops and walk when the child walks.
• Will the pony stand quietly to be groomed and saddled?
• Will the open his mouth to accept the bit, and be patient while a new rider fumbles in getting the headstall over his ears and adjusted properly?
• If possible, take the pony on a trail base for a couple weeks. The owner may request a legal document and insurance for this. It will be worth it.

If the pony passes to above tests, you should have a veterinarian check him out.

A child with a new pony needs instruction on how to lead, groom, saddle and care for the pony. More important is guidance in understanding how equines thinks and the body language of horses. A child can learn valuable lessons about being kind, firm, and fair. Remember the child is being asked to take a "parent" role in the ongoing training fo the pony. If you are not equiped to do this teaching, get a good instructional book or professional help.

These are some basic considerations in selecting a fun, safe pony for the child in your life. There can be years of growing love, trust, and fun ahead for both child and pony.